I think Fatum you are getting very cynical about love
If everyone thought like you, no one will be in love or wanna get
married coz there will be no relationship to speak about.
Anyway love is a strange thing
I no longer get heart palpitations when I see MPB like when we are
dating but does that mean I love him less? I may no longer feel the
rush of love but my feelings for him is still love, and if not
stronger than in the past.
At the same time if you keep thinking you will get hurt in the
relationship and allows it to hold you back, you will never know if
you miss the person or not.
You know, you will not get the girl for you on the 1st strike
Heck, that happens sometimes but that means they are lucky or made
the effort for the relationship to work.
The problem these days is that alot of people do not want to make a
relationship work. Divorce is on the lips without trying to iron
out the problems .
A relationship cannot survive on love alone. Love makes it easier
but ultimately the couple will still have to work on it .
Ultimately, instead of waiting for the ONE to appear in front of
you, you should just go with the flow because the person whom you
think might not be for you, might ultimately be the one for you in
the end.